I Ching · Hexagram 54 of 64
54. Guī Mèi 歸妹 · The Marrying Maiden
By Destiny Kua · Updated
Know your position; don't force an unequal situation.
- Upper trigram
- Thunder 震
- Lower trigram
- Lake 兌
What hexagram 54 means
Guī Mèi shows thunder above a lake: the young woman who marries into a lesser position. It is about unequal situations, where you don't hold the power. The traditional advice is to know your position, avoid forcing things and keep your own dignity.
Hexagram 54 in daily life
At work
An unequal situation. Understand your real position and act within it.
In relationships
Don't force a connection or rush a commitment that isn't balanced.
For yourself
Be realistic about what you can change and what you can't.
The six changing lines
If your cast included changing lines (a 6 or a 9), read the matching lines below. Line 1 is the bottom line.
| Line | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Line 1 | Entering in a lower position, like a lame person who can still walk. Going forward brings good fortune. |
| Line 2 | Like a one-eyed person who can still see, stay loyal to what you know. The quiet persistence of someone alone. |
| Line 3 | Accepting a lower position than you deserve. Be patient; the right place will come. |
| Line 4 | Delaying past the expected time. A later, better union will come. |
| Line 5 | Dressed more modestly than the attendants. Humility shines; good fortune. |
| Line 6 | The basket holds no fruit, the sacrifice yields no blood. Empty forms bring nothing. |
The two trigrams
The lower trigram, Lake 兌 (Duì), stands for your inner state and the root of the situation. The upper trigram, Thunder 震 (Zhèn), stands for the outer circumstances. In element terms this is Wood over Metal. Lake is the trigram of Kua 7 and Thunder is the trigram of Kua 3.
Related hexagrams
- Opposite (every line changed): 53. Jiàn 漸 · Development
- Inverted (read upside down): 53. Jiàn 漸 · Development
- Trigrams swapped: 17. Suí 隨 · Following
Questions to reflect on
- What is my real position in this?
- Am I forcing something unbalanced?
- How can I keep my dignity here?
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