嫁娶 · Auspicious Dates
Auspicious Days for Weddings & ROM in October 2025
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October 2025: 7 Good, 15 Fair, 9 Avoid
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Every date, best first
- Fri 3 OctGood
- Sun 5 OctGood
- Sun 12 OctGood
- Thu 16 OctGood
- Fri 24 OctGood
- Tue 28 OctGood
- Thu 30 OctGood
- Thu 2 OctFair
- Sat 4 OctFair
- Tue 7 OctFair
- Wed 8 OctFair
- Fri 10 OctFair
- Sat 11 OctFair
- Mon 13 OctFair
- Wed 15 OctFair
- Fri 17 OctFair
- Mon 20 OctFair
- Wed 22 OctFair
- Thu 23 OctFair
- Sat 25 OctFair
- Mon 27 OctFair
- Wed 29 OctFair
- Wed 1 OctAvoid
破 Destruction day, the month breaker
- Mon 6 OctAvoid
閉 Close day
- Thu 9 OctAvoid
歲破 Year breaker: clashes the Snake year
- Tue 14 OctAvoid
破 Destruction day, the month breaker
- Sat 18 OctAvoid
楊公忌 Yang Gong taboo day
- Sun 19 OctAvoid
閉 Close day
- Tue 21 OctAvoid
歲破 Year breaker: clashes the Snake year
- Sun 26 OctAvoid
破 Destruction day, the month breaker
- Fri 31 OctAvoid
閉 Close day
About a wedding or ROM dates
The almanac term for marriage is 嫁娶. The most popular wedding days fall on 成 Success, 定 Stable and 開 Open. We skip Destruction and Close days, year-breaker days, the eve of each season change, Yang Gong taboo days and the 7th lunar month.
The ROM (legal registration) and the tea ceremony or banquet can fall on different dates. Many couples use this page twice: once for a weekday ROM slot and once for the customary celebration, which is often booked a year ahead.
Add both partners’ birth years below. The calendar hides any day that clashes with either of you, which is the first thing a traditional date selection checks.
Questions about a wedding or ROM dates
Can the ROM and the tea ceremony be on different days?
Yes, and many couples in Singapore and Malaysia do exactly that. Choose each date on its own merits. If you only want to choose carefully once, the tea ceremony is the date families traditionally focus on.
Does the time of day matter?
For the tea ceremony and the fetching of the bride, many families pick an auspicious hour as well. This page covers the day only. A personal date selection report can include the hours.
What if my preferred venue date is a Fair day?
Fair days have no traditional exclusions. Their Day Officer is just not one of the three favoured ones. If it does not clash with either partner, it is a perfectly acceptable choice.
What about Hungry Ghost month?
Weddings are very rarely held in the 7th lunar month, and venues often offer discounts then for that reason. Those days are greyed out here.
Should parents’ birth years be checked too?
Some families also avoid days that clash with the parents, especially the person hosting the tea ceremony. Run a second check with their years if that matters to your family.
Want a date chosen for your whole family's charts?
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A simplified traditional method for reflection and cultural interest. For a wedding, a business launch or a major purchase, many families also consult a feng shui master.