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Auspicious Days for Weddings & ROM in November 2024

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November 2024: 7 Good, 16 Fair, 7 Avoid

Calendar

MonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1Fair危2Good成3Fair收
4Good開5Avoid閉6Avoid建7Fair建8Fair除9Fair滿10Fair平
11Good定12Fair執13Avoid破14Fair危15Good成16Fair收17Good開
18Avoid閉19Fair建20Fair除21Fair滿22Fair平23Avoid定24Fair執
25Avoid破26Fair危27Good成28Fair收29Good開30Avoid閉

Every date, best first

  1. Sat 2 NovGood
    Day pillar
    庚午 Yang Metal Horse
    Day Officer
    成 Success
    Clashes
    Rat
  2. Mon 4 NovGood
    Day pillar
    壬申 Yang Water Monkey
    Day Officer
    開 Open
    Clashes
    Tiger
  3. Mon 11 NovGood
    Day pillar
    己卯 Yin Earth Rabbit
    Day Officer
    定 Stable
    Clashes
    Rooster
  4. Fri 15 NovGood
    Day pillar
    癸未 Yin Water Goat
    Day Officer
    成 Success
    Clashes
    Ox
  5. Sun 17 NovGood
    Day pillar
    乙酉 Yin Wood Rooster
    Day Officer
    開 Open
    Clashes
    Rabbit
  6. Wed 27 NovGood
    Day pillar
    乙未 Yin Wood Goat
    Day Officer
    成 Success
    Clashes
    Ox
  7. Fri 29 NovGood
    Day pillar
    丁酉 Yin Fire Rooster
    Day Officer
    開 Open
    Clashes
    Rabbit
  8. Fri 1 NovFair
    Day pillar
    己巳 Yin Earth Snake
    Day Officer
    危 Danger
    Clashes
    Pig
  9. Sun 3 NovFair
    Day pillar
    辛未 Yin Metal Goat
    Day Officer
    收 Receive
    Clashes
    Ox
  10. Thu 7 NovFair
    Day pillar
    乙亥 Yin Wood Pig
    Day Officer
    建 Establish
    Clashes
    Snake
  11. Fri 8 NovFair
    Day pillar
    丙子 Yang Fire Rat
    Day Officer
    除 Remove
    Clashes
    Horse
  12. Sat 9 NovFair
    Day pillar
    丁丑 Yin Fire Ox
    Day Officer
    滿 Full
    Clashes
    Goat
  13. Sun 10 NovFair
    Day pillar
    戊寅 Yang Earth Tiger
    Day Officer
    平 Balance
    Clashes
    Monkey
  14. Tue 12 NovFair
    Day pillar
    庚辰 Yang Metal Dragon
    Day Officer
    執 Initiate
    Clashes
    Dog
  15. Thu 14 NovFair
    Day pillar
    壬午 Yang Water Horse
    Day Officer
    危 Danger
    Clashes
    Rat
  16. Sat 16 NovFair
    Day pillar
    甲申 Yang Wood Monkey
    Day Officer
    收 Receive
    Clashes
    Tiger
  17. Tue 19 NovFair
    Day pillar
    丁亥 Yin Fire Pig
    Day Officer
    建 Establish
    Clashes
    Snake
  18. Wed 20 NovFair
    Day pillar
    戊子 Yang Earth Rat
    Day Officer
    除 Remove
    Clashes
    Horse
  19. Thu 21 NovFair
    Day pillar
    己丑 Yin Earth Ox
    Day Officer
    滿 Full
    Clashes
    Goat
  20. Fri 22 NovFair
    Day pillar
    庚寅 Yang Metal Tiger
    Day Officer
    平 Balance
    Clashes
    Monkey
  21. Sun 24 NovFair
    Day pillar
    壬辰 Yang Water Dragon
    Day Officer
    執 Initiate
    Clashes
    Dog
  22. Tue 26 NovFair
    Day pillar
    甲午 Yang Wood Horse
    Day Officer
    危 Danger
    Clashes
    Rat
  23. Thu 28 NovFair
    Day pillar
    丙申 Yang Fire Monkey
    Day Officer
    收 Receive
    Clashes
    Tiger
  24. Tue 5 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    癸酉 Yin Water Rooster
    Day Officer
    閉 Close
    Clashes
    Rabbit

    閉 Close day

  25. Wed 6 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    甲戌 Yang Wood Dog
    Day Officer
    建 Establish
    Clashes
    Dragon

    歲破 Year breaker: clashes the Dragon year · 四絕 Eve of a new season (立 term)

  26. Wed 13 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    辛巳 Yin Metal Snake
    Day Officer
    破 Destruction
    Clashes
    Pig

    破 Destruction day, the month breaker

  27. Mon 18 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    丙戌 Yang Fire Dog
    Day Officer
    閉 Close
    Clashes
    Dragon

    閉 Close day · 歲破 Year breaker: clashes the Dragon year

  28. Sat 23 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    辛卯 Yin Metal Rabbit
    Day Officer
    定 Stable
    Clashes
    Rooster

    楊公忌 Yang Gong taboo day

  29. Mon 25 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    癸巳 Yin Water Snake
    Day Officer
    破 Destruction
    Clashes
    Pig

    破 Destruction day, the month breaker

  30. Sat 30 NovAvoid
    Day pillar
    戊戌 Yang Earth Dog
    Day Officer
    閉 Close
    Clashes
    Dragon

    閉 Close day · 歲破 Year breaker: clashes the Dragon year

About a wedding or ROM dates

The almanac term for marriage is 嫁娶. The most popular wedding days fall on 成 Success, 定 Stable and 開 Open. We skip Destruction and Close days, year-breaker days, the eve of each season change, Yang Gong taboo days and the 7th lunar month.

The ROM (legal registration) and the tea ceremony or banquet can fall on different dates. Many couples use this page twice: once for a weekday ROM slot and once for the customary celebration, which is often booked a year ahead.

Add both partners’ birth years below. The calendar hides any day that clashes with either of you, which is the first thing a traditional date selection checks.

Questions about a wedding or ROM dates

Can the ROM and the tea ceremony be on different days?

Yes, and many couples in Singapore and Malaysia do exactly that. Choose each date on its own merits. If you only want to choose carefully once, the tea ceremony is the date families traditionally focus on.

Does the time of day matter?

For the tea ceremony and the fetching of the bride, many families pick an auspicious hour as well. This page covers the day only. A personal date selection report can include the hours.

What if my preferred venue date is a Fair day?

Fair days have no traditional exclusions. Their Day Officer is just not one of the three favoured ones. If it does not clash with either partner, it is a perfectly acceptable choice.

What about Hungry Ghost month?

Weddings are very rarely held in the 7th lunar month, and venues often offer discounts then for that reason. Those days are greyed out here.

Should parents’ birth years be checked too?

Some families also avoid days that clash with the parents, especially the person hosting the tea ceremony. Run a second check with their years if that matters to your family.

A simplified traditional method for reflection and cultural interest. For a wedding, a business launch or a major purchase, many families also consult a feng shui master.